Sunday’s message reminded us that every day we stand at a crossroads: one path shaped by opinion and the other by revelation. Opinion speaks first, but revelation listens. Opinion reacts, but revelation responds. Opinion clings for control, while revelation bows in communion. The difference between the two determines whether we walk in rest or wrestle in resistance.

We discovered that uncrucified opinion always fractures fellowship. It turns conversation into competition and prayer into performance. But when the mind is surrendered, His wisdom flows unhindered, His peace governs our emotions, and His rest replaces our striving (Philippians 2:5).

As a church, we named and nailed our opinions to the cross, learning to test every thought with three questions:

  1. Is it Scriptural?
  2. Is it Spirit-born and peaceable?
  3. Is it shepherd-hearted toward people?

We embraced the daily exchange of Romans 12:1–2—Present → Renew → Prove—and began practicing a 4-P rhythm for real-time obedience: Pause, Pray, Preview, Proceed. Revelation doesn’t silence your thoughts—it sanctifies them. It shifts us from the noisy scramble for control to the quiet confidence of communion.

We then anchored our peace in Philippians 4:6–9, learning that prayer with thanksgiving turns pressure into petition, that guarding our inputs starves suspicion and feeds truth, and that practicing truth daily transforms reflex into rest.

Finally, we chose communion over control, following the example of Jehoshaphat who placed singers before soldiers and watched God turn a battlefield into a blessing field. Together, we committed to several “rules of life” that keep our hearts centered:

  • The Shalom Minute: three times a day—pause, read a short Scripture, and pray, “Jesus, You govern this house.”
  • The Marriage Delay & Pray Rule: wait 24 hours before reacting and choose one verse to pray together.
  • The 72-Hour Opinion Fast: replace advice and criticism with intercession and blessing.

We were invited to build house altars of peace, anchored in Exodus 14:14—“The LORD shall fight for you, and ye shall hold your peace.” And as we came forward, we laid down our arguments and anxieties, exchanging the tyranny of our own reasoning for the tranquility of His mind.

Where opinion dies, communion begins.
Where the mind bows, Christ reigns.
And where His peace governs, the war within finally ceases.

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The Weight You Were Never Meant to Carry

“Casting all your care upon him; for he careth for you.” — 1 Peter 5:7

The reason your shoulders ache isn’t always physical—it’s spiritual. You’ve been carrying a weight that belongs to God. Every “what if,” every late-night worry, every replayed conversation is proof that your peace has been misplaced. The cross was never meant to share space with control. Jesus carried the full load of your sin, sorrow, and struggle so you wouldn’t have to. Yet so often, we take back what He already paid for, as if His shoulders were not strong enough.

We call it “responsibility,” but sometimes it’s disguised unbelief. We tell ourselves, “Someone has to hold it all together,” when the truth is, Someone already is. The blood of Jesus didn’t purchase a partial rest—it purchased total surrender. You were not created to be the Savior of your home, your children, your church, or your circumstances. When you insist on fixing everything, you forfeit the stillness that allows God to move. The Lord told Moses, “Stand still, and see the salvation of the LORD.” Stillness isn’t inactivity—it’s trust in action.

When you’re weighed down with anxiety, your faith becomes buried under layers of self-reliance. God never asks you to carry what He already conquered. You can’t out-plan His providence or outwork His will. The same hands that shaped galaxies can hold your grief, your future, and your family. But He won’t wrestle you for what you refuse to release. Faith doesn’t grow stronger by trying harder—it grows stronger by surrendering sooner.

Let’s be honest: many of us don’t feel heavy because life got harder; we feel heavy because we forgot who’s supposed to carry the load. Like Martha, we are “careful and troubled about many things,” while Mary rests at His feet. There’s a peace that only comes when you stop performing for God and start resting in Him. When you finally unclench your hands, you’ll realize that He’s been waiting to take the burden all along.

Moses watched the Red Sea part not because he panicked, but because he obeyed the command to stand still. Egypt’s army was behind him, the sea before him, and terrified people all around him. But in that still moment—when obedience outweighed fear—God did what no human could. The miracle didn’t happen because of human strength, but divine surrender. In the same way, the walls in your life will never move by your power, but by your posture. When your hands lift in surrender instead of strain, heaven moves on your behalf.

Think of a child trying to carry a suitcase twice his size. Every step is a struggle until his father quietly kneels, takes it from him, and says, “I’ve got it.” That’s exactly what the Father is whispering to you. The weight of the world isn’t yours—it’s His. You were made to walk beside Him, not beneath what He already bore on Calvary.

Prayer: Father, I give You the burdens I’ve been carrying. Lift what my strength cannot. Teach me to trust that stillness is not weakness—it’s worship. Help me to lay down every fear I’ve picked up out of habit. I release my grip on the things that were never mine to control—my family, my future, my pain. You are strong enough, wise enough, and loving enough to handle them all. In Jesus’ name, Amen.

Challenge: Take five minutes today to sit in silence before God. Don’t speak—just breathe and remind your heart, “He is God, and I am not.” As thoughts and worries rise, picture placing each one into His hands. Then leave them there. Before the day ends, write down one specific burden you’ve carried too long—and beneath it, write in bold letters: “This belongs to God.”

Betty Hammock

Cheryl Knight’s Brother

Deon Lotter

Doris Loyd

Jean Partee’s Sister

Kathryn Rains  

Kay Woodson

Mike Bryan

Nancy Brown  

Amy Garner’s Dad

Annette Ford

Andrea Nix– Friend of the Shelnutt’s

Angela Bryan’s Sister

Ann Stanley  

Carol Lawhead – Park Place Rehab in Monroe

Danny Jarrard   

Darlene Wiggins

Debbie Foskey 

Doris Loyd

Dr. and Mrs. Davis

Eric Magnusson’s Mother

Eric Ward

Friend of Linda Hodge

Gayle Sparks

George & Linda Alexander 

James Burnette

Jessica Headrick  

John McClain’s Mother

June Cronan’s Sister

June Davis

Kailey Bateman

Kathryn Raines

Kim McClain’s Mother 

Kim’s Sisters – Ann & Brenda 

Lee Cronan

Lillianna Magnusson’s Mom

Linda Breedlove’s Sister – Sarah 

Linda Mays      

Lonzo Christian 

Lori Blount’s Mother

Mary Williams

Mary Williamson – Dana Jackson’s Mom

Mrs. Franklin 

Nora Allison

Ron And Johnnie Barry – Friends Of Ashton & Glenda Bateman

Rose Fuller – Pruitt-Monroe Nursing Home, Forsyth GA

Scott Lanier 

Scotty Nix

Sheila Simmons  

Stephanie Seivers – Friend of the Shellnutts

Steve Michaels

Tom Witcher