NOVEMBER THEME — 

Today’s message that I didn’t get to preach, “From Control to Communion: Living by Revelation, Not Opinion,” called us to the daily crossroads where opinion speaks first but revelation listens, where opinion reacts but revelation responds, where opinion grasps for control but revelation bows in communion. We learned that uncrucified opinion breaks fellowship—turning dialogue into debate and prayer into performance—while a surrendered mind allows His wisdom to flow, His peace to govern, and His rest to replace our restlessness (Phil. 2:5). We named and nailed opinion to the cross, testing every thought by three questions: Is it Scriptural? Is it Spirit-born and peaceable? Is it shepherd-hearted toward people? We embraced a daily exchange (Rom. 12:1–2)—Present → Renew → Prove—and the 4-P rhythm for real-time obedience: Pause, Pray, Preview, Proceed. Revelation isn’t about silencing our thoughts but surrendering them, moving from the noise of control to the quiet confidence of communion.

We fortified peace with Philippians 4:6–9: praying with thanksgiving (turning pressure into petition), curating our inputs (starving suspicion, feeding truth), and practicing truth until reflex becomes rest. Then we chose communion over control, like Jehoshaphat who commissioned singers and watched God turn a battlefield into a blessing field. As a church, we committed to simple “rules of life”: the Shalom Minute (3x daily silence + Scripture + “Jesus, You govern this house”), a marriage Delay & Pray rule (24 hours and one agreed Scripture), and a 72-hour Opinion Fast (replace advice/negativity with intercession and blessing). Finally, we were invited to build a house altar anchored in Exodus 14:14—“The LORD shall fight for you, and ye shall hold your peace”—and to come to the front, laying down our arguments and anxieties for the mind of Christ. Where opinion dies, communion begins.

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When Control Wears a Halo

“Trust in the LORD with all thine heart; and lean not unto thine own understanding.” — Proverbs 3:5

The Disguise of Control

Control doesn’t always march in wearing pride—it often tiptoes in wearing a halo. It dresses itself in wisdom, stewardship, and even prayerfulness. It sounds like faith but smells like fear. It convinces us that if we don’t manage every outcome, something holy might collapse. Yet beneath every controlling impulse is a subtle unbelief that says, “God may not come through this time.” What begins as carefulness can quietly become captivity. When we live protecting outcomes instead of trusting God’s providence, we build walls around blessings that were meant to grow in the open air of surrender.

The Cross Over Control

Jesus never tried to control the cross—He carried it. He didn’t manipulate Judas, silence Pilate, or escape Gethsemane. He yielded His will to the Father’s, and that surrender changed eternity. Control wants to write the ending, but surrender lets God author the whole story. Every time we release our grip on people, timing, or outcomes, we shift from being managers of fear to carriers of faith. You cannot receive resurrection power while clinging to the hammer and nails of self-will. The cross is proof that what looks like losing control is often the beginning of divine victory.

Resting in His Hands

Peace does not come from mastering every variable—it flows from knowing the Master. When you finally stop trying to hold everything together, you discover that He already is. Your worry doesn’t secure the future—it strangles the present. But trust releases life back into your soul. Like Abraham, when you try to “help God out,” you birth Ishmael—something that looks like the promise but carries the strain of self-effort. But when you wait, when you trust, when you rest—Isaac is born, and joy fills what once was barren. True rest begins the moment you whisper, “God, this belongs to You now.”

Abraham tried to fulfill God’s promise through human reasoning by fathering Ishmael. But God’s covenant could only be fulfilled through faith, not flesh. It was not Abraham’s planning that brought the promise—it was his surrender.

Prayer: Lord, forgive me for mistaking control for faith. Strip away the pride that pretends to protect and teach me to trust You more than my own understanding. I release the things I cannot hold. Teach me to rest in Your hands and to believe that surrender is my safest place.

Challenge: Write down one area where you’ve been “helping God out.” Say aloud: “Lord, I name this and nail it to the cross. It belongs to You now.”Then walk away in peace—and let Him prove that His way was better all along.

Betty Hammock

Kay Woodson

Cheryl Knight’s Brother

Jean Partee’s Sister

Kathryn Rains  

Deon Lotter

Doris Loyd

Mike Bryan

Mike Hollinhead

Nancy Brown – Rehab

The Barksdale Family – Bobbi Jackson’s Brother In Law Passed Away

Allysa Elliott

Amy Garner’s Dad

Annette Ford

Andrea Nix– Friend of the Shelnutt’s

Angela Bryan’s Sister

Ann Stanley  

Carol Lawhead – Park Place Rehab in Monroe

Danny Jarrard   

Darlene Wiggins

Debbie Foskey 

Doris Loyd

Dr. and Mrs. Davis

Eric Magnusson’s Mother

Eric Ward

Friend of Linda Hodge

Gayle Sparks

George & Linda Alexander 

James Burnette

Jessica Headrick  

John McClain’s Mother

June Cronan’s Sister

June Davis

Kailey Bateman

Kathryn Raines

Kim McClain’s Mother 

Kim’s Sisters – Ann & Brenda 

Lee Cronan

Lillianna Magnusson’s Mom

Linda Breedlove’s Sister – Sarah 

Linda Mays      

Lonzo Christian 

Lori Blount’s Mother

Mary Williams

Mary Williamson – Dana Jackson’s Mom

Mrs. Franklin 

Nora Allison

Ron And Johnnie Barry – Friends Of Ashton & Glenda Bateman

Rose Fuller – Pruitt-Monroe Nursing Home, Forsyth GA

Scott Lanier 

Scotty Nix

Sheila Simmons  

Stephanie Seivers – Friend of the Shellnutts

Steve Michaels

Tom Witcher